Q3 Outside Reading Week 5 Post B

Dear Anna,

I just wanted to tell you that what you're doing is really brave. I know it's hard for you and your family, but sometimes, when you've given up so much, you need to think about yourself too. I know it sounds selfish, but think about it this way: how many people will actually stop and help a person in a car accident? How many people will keep going? As Campbell said, no one's required to help someone else out, but they will if they're a good person, and you have been. You've been a great person for your sister. She's survived to the age of 16 because of you and you've given her a chance to live. But now it's your turn to live. You haven't been sick, but you might as well have been. I know that you always define yourself in terms of your sister, but it's time for you to realize who you are. You love her, and that makes sense, but you shouldn't define your life in terms of someone else's, something your mother has done. I know as well as anyone that she hasn't always been the best parent to you, or to Jesse. It's always been about Kate for her. She defines her life in terms of Kate as well, is that what you want? Or do you want the freedom to choose, the freedom to be whoever you want to be? Just because you don't want to donate a kidney doesn't mean you're a bad person. Jesse burns down buildings, but he's not a bad person either. Both of you have sacrificed so much for Kate and that makes you good.

I'd also like to take this opportunity to tell you to testify. Listen to Campbell, he knows what he's doing. He's looking out for you, he truly is, even if you don't think so. If you don't testify, there's no way the judge will rule in your favor. He can't see that you're mature enough or ready to make medical decisions on your own. Anna, this is your turn to change your life, shape it the way you want to, and you're running away from it. Don't. You don't have to do anything you don't want to, including testifying, but it is in your best interest to do so. You've always wanted people to listen, but they never have. Now they will, they have to, and you can say whatever you want. Don't reach for a source of power only to back away from it when you have it. Take what you have and make the most of it. Lastly, good luck with everything. I hope things turn out well for you and your family.

Sincerely, Amy